ok .. I just did a reboot and it pulled 1 of the 2
it still doesn't have a record of the DC but it shows my IIS server now
Error log
4/8/2010 9:40:51 AM: Database connection successful, starting up service
4/8/2010 10:45:28 AM: Cannot connect to database, check your config file, will try again in 1 minute
Cannot open database "lansweeperdb" requested by the login. The login failed.
Login failed for user 'lansweeperuser'.
4/8/2010 10:46:57 AM: Database connection successful, starting up service
4/8/2010 1:29:17 PM: Cannot connect to database, check your config file, will try again in 1 minute
Cannot open database "lansweeperdb" requested by the login. The login failed.
Login failed for user 'lansweeperuser'.
4/8/2010 1:30:27 PM: Database connection successful, starting up service
these were all generated at reboot times